Someone who likes being both top and bottom, either in one scene or on different occasions. Usually caused by the removal of positive stimuli and the endorphins they produce either from play or being surrounded by others within the kinky community.

However, there are a few forms of play which almost always make the cut, including fireplay, gunplay, rough body play, breath play, and bloodplay. Unsourced material may be challenged and removed. Kinbaku is a Japanese style of bondage or BDSM which involves tying up the bottom using simple yet visually intricate patterns, usually with several pieces of thin rope. Traditionally Japanese form of BDSM often involving nose hooks.

Urinating on, or being urinated on by, another person. Kendra Lust wants a pulitzer for this story! Some people in the BDSM community begin dominant terms with an upper case, for example: Top, Master, Dom, Domme, etc. Is usually considered an offshoot of fireplay, although in sensation it is closer to the use of clips and clamps. Relationship in which protocols are in place continuously. Student, but does not imply that ageplay is involved. Upon practices were required by periodical editors to circumvent censorship and obscenity law. As such, it is a show of trust and understanding and usually undertaken only by partners who know each other well, or otherwise agree to set clear safe limits on their activities. Mutual agreement that within defined limits, consent will be given as read without foreknowledge of the exact actions planned.

Is therefore pain that is mutually agreed, desired or permitted by the submissive partner to be experienced, and seen by them as of enjoyment or value. Of consensual pain, there is a purpose to it, and some pain is consented to and accepted whilst other pain is not. Person who enjoys pain, usually sexually. Fear of the weapon plays a large part in the stimulus of the bottom.

For purposes of sexual stimulation, body modification, tickling, or torture. Practitioners imagine to be painful are instead perceived and described by BDSM practitioners as pleasurable or a good form of pain, in much the way that muscles after a workout at the gym may be sore, but in a good way. This can last for as long as a week, and is best prevented by aftercare immediately after the session. Consensual pain, there is a purpose to it, and some pain is consented to and accepted whilst other pain is not. To areas that were struck during play. It can be either formal or non, and is usually written after much negotiation by the dominant and the sub, outlining what structure, guidelines, rules and boundaries to the relationship are agreed upon by the two. Credo used by some BDSM practitioners to determine the appropriateness of BDSM play. Example, imagine soreness after a good workout at the gym versus the pain of stubbing your toe.

Wrists and ankles, fastening them together behind their back using physical restraints such as rope or cuffs. Temporary piercings done with sterile needles of varying gauges, usually only for the duration of a scene. Slow, methodical sensation of the bottom with the edges and points of knives, usually without cutting the skin. Sub barks, whines, eats from a bowl, etc.

Sub is made to act like a puppy. May require a warm up beforehand. Torture of the female genitals for sexual gratification. While delaying or preventing resolution of the feelings, to keep them in a continual state of anticipatory tension and inner conflict, and heightened sensitivity. Immobilising the body by wrapping it up, usually with multiple layers of tight thin plastic sheeting. They are told to prance or behave like a pony. This site is rated with RTA label.

Or their body, and may have limited ability to communicate. Used especially in scenes which may involve consensual force. The practice of inserting a piece of ginger root into the anus or vagina. The act of causing deliberate physical pain to the breasts and nipples. During BDSM play and subsequent injury. The time after a BDSM scene or play session in which the participants calm down, discuss the previous events and their personal reactions to them, and slowly come back in touch with reality. Sometimes used in Petplay, with a tail attached. Masochism: a combined acronym often used as a catchall for anything in the kink scene.

All models were 18 years of age or older at the time of depiction. Valued, not wished for, and of limited or no value in this context. Or an ongoing effort of the dominant teaching the submissive how to act. The act of tying breasts so that they are either flattened against the chest or so that they bulge. Drop: A feeling of deflation or slight depression that comes after a kinky scene, party, convention, or conference. After an intense session of BDSM play. The act of spanking another person for the sexual arousal or gratification of either or both parties. The slave will usually accept a collar from their Master to show that they are owned.

As these return to more everyday levels. They can sometimes be talked into the activity, or preferably it may be negotiated at a trial or beginner level into a scene. Person who enjoys inflicting pain, usually sexually. Painslut: A person who enjoys receiving a heavy degree of pain but may or may not necessarily enjoy submitting. Broad term referring to all forms of alternative sexuality. Group of subs serving one or more dominants. Life, making the majority of decisions.